January 05th, 2009 | Category: xn--fiqs8stwme6s806a.com
I recently got in touch with someone i haven't spoken to in a few years. I knew him through primary and we were friends around the age of 13 - 14. During this period i had a huge crush on him but he was never aware of it. Now we're both 17 and i still have feelings for him. We've been texting for a little over a week. I text him almost everyday and since he is on a contract phone he usually texts me back. However he hasn't text me in the past two days despite me asking him if he'd like to go out sometime. My friends tell me he is shy. But could it be possible i'm driving him away because i text him so much? I know that looking desperate is never attractive. If this is the case, what can i do to make myself not text him? Thank you :)Yes, slow down on the texting, give him something to chase :-)
Maybe in a week if he hasnt text you, try again. But after that, his just not worth itur definatly trying to hard.the chase is the best part of the game.why not organise a get together with mutual friends & see how it works out.Well, if he replies when you text him, or if he takes the initiative to send him a message, then you shouldn't feel bad. You may be a little insecure, that's all.
Your friends may be right. Wait a little bit. Maybe it's best to call him directly if you want to ask him out. It feels a little more personal and reassuring.You asked him if he'd like to go out and you haven't heard from him? That's your answer. He was never yours to drive away and it looks like he doesn't want to be.
Guys like being chased until it gets more than flirty (ie asking him out), to them anything after that is just complicated and they can't deal with it.
Leave it - don't text him - within a week you'll hear from him because he's missing being chased and wants an ego boost.Don't ext so much, even if it is tempting, when you get the urge, just text someone else. Maybe invite him out to a thing where there'll be other friends so the pressure is not so intense and if things get awkward, you have other people to talk to. But for now, leave it, you've made your move. It's up to him.Yes! You're texting too much!
You gotta "pull" him in, instead of "pushing" him away. Tone down the texting, and try to make HIM TEXT YOU, instead of YOU TEXTING HIM.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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